Our condolences to the DeRubis family. Growing up in Armagh I've known both Trudy and Gilbert for many years and have always enjoyed their company. They were both quite the characters. In fact, Gilbert was our Boy Scout Scoutmaster and I had him as a teacher in school. Trudy always greeted me with a big smile and big 'Hi Dude'. She will be missed by all who knew her. May God hold and comfort you in this very difficult time.
I am very sorry for your loss. May the love of family & friends help the loss of your love one. May she look down and see the love of that she had by the shining of the candles that where light in the hearts in everyone that loved and cared for her. May this candle be light in her memory and in her honor.